Chris Oyakhilome speaks on divorce; says media is writing stupid things

Y'all need to listen to this. He said he was
not accused of the things (the media) said,
and neither did he 'commit' those 'stupid'
things (the media) said. And he asked
people to pray for his wife because she
made a mistake. For those who can't view
the video, continue to read what he said...
"I understand that some media houses
particularly in Nigeria and maybe in South
Africa have been writing some real stupid
things. Frivolous charges...that's crazy.
You have to understand something about a
Man of God. A man of God is not just
someone who worships God or who
preaches God. A man of God is directed by
God, set on course by God. If you study the
scriptures you will not find one Man of God
going against God, sinning against God. The
only thing you can find is a Man of God,
maybe in two different things 1. Moses for
example, when he struck the rock twice,
provoked by the anger of the people, not
because he wanted to do something against
the Lord.
No Man of God does something against the
Lord. A Man of God is set on course, there
is a type of life that he's been given,
alright?
Then you have a young man, a young
prophet, he wasn't named, he was deceived
by another Man of God, and so he went in
the direction God says don't go. That's only
the kind of thing you would find about a
Man of God when he misses the message of
God or he acts beyond what God said.
But a Man of God setting himself in
defiance to the word of God and living like
they are writing those stupid things about
me that I did this, that I did that, you don't
know what a Man of God is. I don't go in
that direction. That seems crazy.
I wasn't accused of those things you said,
nor did I commit those stupid thing that
you said and I don't need to go to that
level and such discussions. Jesus Christ was
accused by many, with lots of frivolous
charges. There would always be those who
would like for it to be true, but you know,
in spite of the accusations against Jesus, it
didn't change who he was!
There are preachers and there are Men of
God. I'm not a preacher, I'm a Man of God.
Understand the difference. And I go in the
way I'm asked to go, it may cause some
troubles with individuals, but that's not
because I've done something wrong.
And when it comes to Rev. Anita, what I'd
say to you is pray for her, don't act like
'why is she....' . If you're married to a Man
of God it does not you make automatically
mature. You can make mistakes, but you
know, people expect the wife of a Minister
to definitely be at the level of the Minister,
and so they may be looked upon and the
expectations maybe like that, but it's a
positional thing. If a Man of God is married,
it does not automatically mean the wife of
the Man of God is therefore a Woman of
God! That's not how it is in the Bible. That's
why you don't really find wives of Men of
God mentioned in the bible. How many of
them? Who was Peter's wife? Did you ever
know her name? Who was John's wife? Did
you ever read the name? What about all the
other apostles? How many are registered in
the bible? You never find their names, why?
Ask God when you find Him!
So, they are little things, don't try to make
something big out of them. We're
journeying, doing the things that God's
called us to do. Christians should not have
a divorce. It shouldn't be. But that doesn't
mean a Christian may not take the step.
They may do it, but that doesn't make it
right. And we shouldn't take one another to
court, but when it happens, not because we
want to go there, someone is taking us
there. That's a problem. Be wise and stay
focused in the Word of God, and don't let
those who want to feast on things like this
including Christians. The Christians who like
things like this, they want to make
something big about it. And say yes we said
it. You said what? You should only say
those things that are from God, and
become honorable in your speech. And
judge nothing before the time. Be wise,
Glory to God.
So we are going greater and greater and
greater by the power of the living Christ.
So, we are not walking in sin and living in
sin and hoping we can mix sin and
righteousness together, No! We are the
manifestations of His righteousness, we
walk in that light only, and that's the way
it's going to be! Glory to God